Standing with Survivors Ahead of International Women’s Day

When someone chooses to use violence against a woman, they often rely on coercive control to silence her. Whether the perpetrator is a current or former partner, a parent, sibling, or another family member, coercive control is insidious. It isolates, manipulates, and emotionally abuses, making survivors feel powerless, unheard, and even question their own reality.

At the Women’s Domestic Violence Court Advocacy Service (WDVCAS), we witness the immense strength it takes for a woman to reach out for support. Every phone call to our service is a testament to her resilience. Our role is to ensure that when a survivor speaks, she is heard. We advocate, support, and empower women to take steps towards safety and justice.

 How We Support Survivors

Survivors of domestic and family violence often face barriers to seeking help. At WDVCAS, we provide practical and emotional support, helping women:

• Prepare to give evidence in court
• Speak with police and legal professionals
• Connect with counselling and other essential services
• Develop safety plans tailored to their needs
• Navigate financial relief options

By walking alongside them, we help restore the power of their voice.

How You Can Support a Survivor

If someone in your life tells you they are experiencing abuse, your response matters. 
Here are some key ways to support them:

• Believe them. A survivor’s experience is real, and validation is crucial.
• Never blame them. Abuse is never the survivor’s fault.
• Recognise their strength. Coming forward takes immense courage.
• Ask how you can help. Everyone’s needs are different—listen without judgment.
• Offer practical support. If they want to report to police, you can offer to drive them, sit with them, or check in afterward.
• Encourage them to seek support. WDVCAS can provide the right resources and safety planning.

Hope for Change

Hearing stories of violence can feel overwhelming, but real progress is happening. In the past year alone, new laws criminalising coercive control have been introduced, financial relief for survivors has expanded, and new court processes are improving access to justice.

Change happens when we listen to survivors and walk alongside them in their journey. Their voices hold power—the power to seek justice, to heal, and to drive meaningful change in our communities.

If you or someone you know needs support, reach out to The Family Co. by making a referral.

Together, we can help ensure that no survivor stands alone.

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